Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Loving Friend... The furry kind

I just heard about a friends loss of her dear friend today and it got me thinking about how much apart of our lives our Furry friends are.  Of those that know my family ... you know we are definately pet people and before we had our kids we had a Golden Retriever named Pippin.  He was our first baby and turned out to be a loving and loyal friend who was there for us in the good and bad times!   We got Pippin through a great organization SEVA GRREAT out of Yorktown VA.  He was the first dog we actually met and even though we said we werent going to take him home just because he was the first dog... he dug himself in our hearts immediately!  He rode home sitting in my lap .. yep all 45lbs of him... and from that moment on he was my constant friend and shadow! 

I guess you dont really realize how intricate a part of the family your dog is until you dont have them anymore... It was bitter sweet to bring maggie home and not have him jump on me because he missed me so much or for him to lick her and say "yep she is part of the family"  It was a very emotional time for us since L had all that... L was Pippins best buddy... they would do everything together...play in the yard, run after balls, you name it they did it.  It broke my heart not only to loose my friend but to have to tell L!  You see Pippin had cancer(that we had no idea about) and one night after L went to bed burst and we had to rush him to the ER Vet... He wasnt in any pain but there was nothing they could do for him... so we made the hardest decision any pet owner will ever have to make and said goodbye to our beloved Friend...

I was newly pregnant after trying for almost a year and i truely believe he knew and waited until he knew i would have something to carry on for so to speak... he was supper intuitive when it came to me... he could tell when i was happy or sad and knew just what i needed to make it better.  so in my heart i know he knew i would be ok and it was his time to go...

So when i get down and missing him because something triggers a memory... i know down in my heart that he is up in Heaven watching out for us and having the time of his young life! 

In Loving memory of Pippin and Brandi!  





Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Firsts!

Firsts!  Arnt they the best!  It is even better this time since L can share them with M!  He is such a great big brother to her and she loves him to pieces already!  She has even begun to follow him around the room and watch everything he does! 

She had lots of firsts this past week!   Her first trip to the Pumpkin Patch!  Her first big girl bath! Her first time in the Jumperoo! and her first time rolling to her side!  She is just getting to big!  I still cant believe she is 3 months well almost 4 months(on the 10th)!  Its crazy how fast they grow. 

I still am in denial that i will be a mother of a 4 year old next month... How did that happen... He is turing into a little man right before our eyes and we wouldnt change a minute of it. 

Enjoy this little glimpse of our Firsts!










And my big man!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Its the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown....

Today was our annual Family Pumpkin Patch Trip, and this year was extra special since it was M's first.  L was super excited to show his little sister all the big orange pumpkins and especially the Golden Retrievers. 



We walked out to the patch and picked out pumpkins(well daddy and I picked our pumpkin) while L ran around and pointed out all the scary scarecrows... His fave was of course the one that looked like Batman!


Well we finally got him to pick a pumpkin for M since he already got one when he went with his school on Wed.  He got her a pretty good one too!  


Then we had our picnic lunch and he got to run around and play in the hay bales and corn maze!  And of course no pumpkin patch trip would be complete without the HAYRIDE!


 



HAPPY FALL EVERYONE!

Friday, October 8, 2010

Mommy Friends....

I got to hang out with some pretty awesome women and babies today and it got me thinking about how luckily I am to have some great mommy friends!  It has been a pretty hard transition for me from being a working mom of 1 to a stay at home mom of 2.  Its alot of transitions and alot of expectations.  I have found that if you have someone who is going through it with you and can sit and talk it helps me atleast stay sane... I know that hey im not the only one going through this stuff and it takes the pressure off. 

So i just want to send out a BIG THANK YOU to all my mommy friends and my kids playdate buddies... I couldnt stay sane without you! 

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Things Are A Changing....

Its been a good while since I have been on here and I feel the need to have an outlet once again... Hoping it will help me figure out how to manage this household and all that that includes...

So to get you up to date!  Well at 34 weeks pregnant with M my dr decides to put me in the hospital since my Blood Pressure was super high(On a side note, mom and liam had come with me to this appointment)... We didnt know if she would come that week or not but i had to stay over night to be watched and luckily I just got sent home on Modified Bedrest until further notice and told to come back in a week(for my regular appt).   I made that appointment for a friday since i just had a feeling that she was going to be coming and luckily this time Liam wasnt with us.  So for that whole week I did what i was told... i stayed in bed for alot of it and mom had L for most of it (Thanks so much since we would not have been ready otherwise) and she and Travis pretty much got the nursery done in record time.  Friday rolls around and mom and I head to the appointment with bags in tow just in case.  Well just like i thought my bp was still not looking good for being on bedrest so off to the Hospital for possible induction(but definately more bloodwork). 

I call T again and we get L set up with family (a BIG thanks to you guys)  T stays at work until the end of the day since nothing was really going to happen right away anyways... so I get admited to Labor and Delivery and hooked up and poked etc... You have to know by this time im getting pretty excited because i was pretty misrable through out this whole last couple months with M... everything hurt pretty much all the time ... and those of you with multiple kids know you never get to rest like you did with the first one... So we wait and wait some more and finally T gets there about the time the oncall Dr comes in to talk to us.  He told us he was comfortable just waiting and watching and to get comfortable since we will be there for the whole weekend.  Can you talk about the air bursting from a balloon.  We were so ready for her to get here that that was truely a let down i guess you could say.  Nothing to be done about it so we just hung out and relaxed.  The next morning Saturday July 10 the oncall DR comes back in to do his morning rounds and we pretty much got told the same thing that we are still just going to watch and see... well he walks out and literally comes back in maybe 3 mins later and says that he didnt see the test results from that morning and now that he had he wants to start my induction right away.  Some of my liver levels etc were creaping up to the not good level so he just thought it best to get the show on the road.  M is looking great through all of this.  She didnt like the monitor pushing on her but overall was pretty well behaved in there....

 So the nurses started the Magnesium which if you have ever been on it you know is not fun.  About 5 mins in i was sweating and HOT from head to toe.  I had to have Mom and T crank the AC up just to stay comfortable.  They also started the Pit at the same time to get my labor moving.  I had decided long before that i was not going to be a brave trooper like i was with L since i was just so ready for all pain(not just labor) to be gone so i told them that as soon as i could get an EPI i wanted it.   Labor kicked in pretty quickly but the pains were so different than when i had L.  They werent in my belly area but instead i would feel them in the area where your leg hooks to your hip.  It was terrible and it felt like a horrible cramp you couldnt get rid of... I would breathe through them and hope the Meds would come soon!  Finally the DR did show with the EPI and this go around T and Mom both got to stay and watch me get it.  T didnt find it as exciting as he thought he would and the nurse jokingly asked him if he needed to leave... Once that was on board i made them aware that i had issues with my body being funky last time i got the EPI so luckily when it happened again they were totally ready and prepared!  Everyone was fine and comfortable finally!  I then decided to sleep since i was finally comfortable and NUMB!  

So hours pass and we are all just hanging out... i would wake every so often and get some AWESOME hospital ICE but for the most part was feeling pretty yucky from the Mag.  Like i said everything this go around was worse....  So finally its time to push!  luckily the EPI had started wearing off a little bit so i could feel when to push and literally i pushed 2 times and then the nurse said STOP i have to get the DR she is trying to come out by herself.  She was having to push her back in during contractions since she wanted to be out so much.  Finally the Dr comes running in and they get everything set up since they didnt expect her to be here so fast(and that included the NICU with her being 35weeks).  The Dr said alright 1 more and thats all she wrote... M was born at 8:56pm and came out SCREAMING... The best sound i had ever heard since we didnt know if her lungs had developed or not.  I just remember looking over and the NICU people looking her over and saying she was perfectly fine!  She didnt have to spend any time in the NICU!!!!  They brought her over and let her lay on my chest for a good long time before having to take her to the nursery to give her a good checking over and make sure her body temp did what it was suppose to since she was so little... My little girl was only 5lbs 14 oz and 20inches long.   Oveall the birth was prety good... I had some issues with nausea during but once it passed it was nice.  I didnt have any of the passing out issues with the Magnesuim this time around and was up the next day and even got a shower that night!   L came to visit her the next day and was totally in love with her from day 1.  He even got mad when the nurse had to take her away for a test in the nursery.  He continues to be a big helper and his little Sister loves to follow him around the room and talk to him! 

So that is the first installment of how our world has changed in the last 3 months.... I will add the rest of the story when i get a chance but i will leave you with some pictures!






Saturday, June 19, 2010

Sorry its been a while

Hi Everyone--

Sorry its been a while... its been crazy busy around here with work and getting ready for Ms Maggie to come...

I am currently 32 weeks and feeling pretty well i suppose... just having the normal aches and pains that go along with being this pregnant... I have also started with the every 2 week appointments which is exciting since that means we are getting pretty close to meeting our little girl...

Liam is very excited to be a big brother and has already been super helpful with getting Maggie's room together and helping mommy put stuff way!  He is going to be GREAT!  

Hope everyone is keeping cool in this summer weather!  It has just skipped right over spring and jumpped with both feet into summer...

Hope to blog again soon!

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Its Official!!

Liam is going to be a big brother to a Little Sister!!  We found out on Friday that our little bundle of joy is a GIRL!  We are all super excited especally Liam!  He was a bit sad when he found out her name was going to be Maggie Leigh instead of Sarah Dirt but got over it quickly once we told him he could get Maggie a babydoll and name it Sarah...

Hope everyone is having a great March!

Here are some pictures of Maggie and what we are planning to do her room in :)  Enjoy!


Wednesday, March 3, 2010

And Baby Makes 4

As most of you guys know... We are expecting Baby Becker #2 in August!  We are getting excited and starting to get the room ready with tons of help from some great friends!  Liam is going to be the best big brother and has already stated that the baby is a GIRL and her name will be Sarah.  This is still to be determined later this month but i have a feeling he is right on the gender...

Anyways I am currently 16weeks and feeling fairly well and Baby B is moving around more and more each day!   Will update more after my 20 week appointment when we get to find out what the baby is(granted that they cooperate!)

Here is a picture of Baby B at 12weeks!